I am tired.
I was only gone from the dating scene 2 years, not a whole lifetime, and yet it feels like some turn of the century revolution exploded while I was away.
What the hell happened to people in between?!
When did everyone become so dishonest that mentioning you are someone’s fiance is not even important anymore?
That’s right, gentlemen, if you put a ring on another girl’s finger… you cannot go out on dates with someone else! That becomes a “NO NO”. Write it down now, try to remember it.
And here’s another thing, if she is still your girlfriend not your fiancee, you STILL cannot take another girl out on a date. Or even ask her out on one. And most definitely not proclaim you want to marry her!
What is wrong with guys now?! What have I missed while in my ditch-me-on-Christmas-Day relationship with RS?
I get criticized by family, friends and acquaintances for being unable to trust people but why bother opening up my heart to so much dishonesty.
I am worn out from a battle with myself, just trying not to become negative and cynical. But I am sinking fast.
The more I look around me, the more I feel like there is no good to be found in at least 99% of people.
Not too long ago, I was convinced that the majority of lovers in a relationship are, at the very least, honest to each other. Now I think no one’s heart is safe with anyone, whether the label is “in a relationship”,”engaged” or “married”.
It is not right that I somehow ended up in the presence of a guy who did not consider it important to mention his significant other all those times he took me out. Silly, silly me thinking “while you marry me?” was a question exclusive to one person.
Why is it that my heart cracked while he had the benefit of having the care and attention of two young women who knew nothing of one another?
It is not like I dress inappropriately or act suggestively. Even if I wanted too, I am far too shy to ever be able to.
And the sadistic little voice inside my head singing “RS and Boobzella, Boobzella and RS…”